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Groundhog Day
2nd of February, 2007

Dear David,

Happy Groundhog Day!

Sometimes art imitates life. Sometimes it imitates dreams. The hero of Groundhog Day, the movie, goes through a progression that is very similar to the way a recurring dream will "step" towards a resolution.

Groundhog Day

In the movie, Bill Murray plays a TV weather reporter, who is covering the Groundhog Day celebration in Punxsutawney, Pennsylvania. Initially he's not a lovable person. He's jaded, cynical and grumpy. He overinflates his own importance, and undervalues everyone else.

The basic story is that Murray has to relive Groundhog Day, February 2, until he learns to stop being a selfish grouch and to care for other people. Murray’s reactions to his situation change through the movie; he travels through manipulation, anger, hopelessness, suicidal despair, to name a few of his attempts to deal with his predicament. Sometimes he takes advantage of what he knows is coming. At other times, he changes himself, but not enough to release him from Groundhog Day. Only when he becomes truly generous and loving can he move on. He wakes up on February 3 and has earned the love of his co-star, Andy McDowell.

His process resembles a dream series. With any recurring dream, you go through all kinds of variations over nights, weeks or months, until you get it right -- and then you can move on.

Manny's Dreams

Manny kept a private dream journal for 18 months. After each dream, he interpreted it and decided what it told him about his waking life. His understandings seem to have been accurate because his Dream-ego changed remarkably over the course of these dreams.

Manny first dreamed that he wanted to get to know a woman. She refused to have anything to do with him because, as she told him, she was pure and he smelled. He had two dreams in which he attempted to contact a woman but couldn’t. Several dreams followed in which a woman tried to communicate with him but failed. He had numerous dreams in which he was about to go into a bedroom with a woman but something happened each time to prevent this. After having made it to the bedroom, he often found two women, but he was undecided about which one to love.

Finally, after all kinds of escapades, and with some relapses, he dreamt he was walking in a garden with a woman. A sense of peace and calm pervaded the dream; he knew that they were married and had made love.

This is his groundhog day. Like Bill Murray, he finally falls in love and that love is returned. However, he had a great deal to learn before this is accomplished.

Brandon's Dreams

Over the course of six months, Brandon's dreams centered on his mother. In the early dreams she was very angry at him. In the dream work, Brandon wrestled with how to protect himself from this loving but also very hostile, mother. Because of his work, his mother's anger changed and she was sometimes helpful, sometimes distant. Eventually, in one remarkable dream, his mother apologized for her behavior. From then on, Brandon's mother became a supportive character in his dream life.

Dealing with a Recurring Theme

The first step is knowing that you have a theme in your dream life. In Groundhog Day, the problem is made very literal and obvious – Murray knows he is reliving the same day.

Dreams are more obscure. Even when you are dealing with the same issue over and over, each dream can appear to be unique.

 

You might dream on one night that a bridge has been washed away in a flood; another night, the car in front of yours has stopped, and on a third night you are waiting for a traffic light to change. All can be seen as dreams about impasses even though each particular impasse is different.

Once the theme becomes apparent, use the techniques described in past columns to help the Dream-ego find new ways of responding to situations. For example, use "Continue the Dream" to advance the specific dream to a desired conclusion. You can play with the dream using the "Movie Method." What you will find, with some relapses, is that each piece of dream work takes you a little further along the path to resolution.

Dreams and Themes

The process of changing recurring dreams and themes is an adventure. You know where you started, but you have many experiments and experiences to find the key that actually moves you onward – to the next adventure.

 

Small Photo DIAL-IN DREAM GROUPS

Whether you live far away or close by, a phone group allows you to get a sense of dream work in a very convenient way. With this new work, I hope to communicate the pleasure and the excitement of dream work to many people.

  • Day: Monday February 5th
  • Time: 5pm-6pm Pacific Daylight Time
  • Dial-in Number: 620-782-2200 (Kansas)
  • Access Code: 707172#

 

DREAM GROUPS

The Saturday drop-in group ($20) is from 10 am to noon at 2315 Prince Street in Berkeley. The nearest major cross street is Ashby and Telegraph. Please let me know if you are coming.

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Best wishes


David Jenkins
Dream RePlay

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