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24: "Bottling" Your Great Dreams
June 30th, 2006
You wake up from a wonderful dream. You feel marvelous, joyful,
peaceful, ecstatic or just plain happy. If only you could bottle
this feeling and recreate it anytime during your waking life. But
dreams are such passing events.
That is possible. With the technique I describe here, you take the
sense of well-being from the dream and locate it in your body. Once
in your body, those wondrous feelings can be recreated at will.
The Technique
Step 1: Locate the feeling. Go back into the dream and relive
the feeling that was so pleasant. To help, concentrate on
visualizing a specific scene from the dream, and include all of your
senses. Sometimes talking through the dream or reliving it with your
eyes closed will help. You want to really get the sensation of the
dream rather than focusing on the the dream's meaning.
As you relive the dream, notice what happens to your body. The good
feelings will center somewhere in your body. You may sense it in
your heart, belly, hands, arms, skin.
The crucial task here is to identify your body’s reaction. Your
initial response may be more emotional and global, such as "I feel
joy everywhere in my body." But if you focus, you’ll discover that
the feeling is most powerful in a particular part of your body and
radiates out from there.
Step 2: Recreate the feeling. Now go the opposite way:
Recreate the feelings in your body and compare them to the feelings
in the dream. Focus on the body feeling and then switch your
attention to the dream. Did the body sensation match the dream or
was there a difference? Repeat this process until you to get a very
close match to the feeling of the dream.
Step 3: Separate the feeling from the dream. Recreate the
feeling without the dream context. You now have the great feeling
from the dream separate from the dream itself. You can take this
feeling around with you and use it whenever you feel the need.
Alice's Dream
I dream that I am in Berkeley and when I look at the Berkeley
Hills, they have changed. They are magnificent, shimmering, and the
light is playing off them like a kaleidoscope. It is very, very
beautiful.
The strongest sensation in the dream was Alice's feeling of beauty.
She had no trouble visualizing the beauty of the hills and sensed
that beauty in her heart and in her throat. She also felt a light,
dancing kind of sensation behind her eyes. The overall effect made
her want to sing.
For the next 24 hours, every time Alice remembered the dream, she
replayed the sensations of her heart, her throat, and her eyes,
generating the wonderful feeling. She also started singing in a
choir.
Bruce's Dream
I dream I am with Sandy, my ex-girlfriend. We are holding hands
and laughing and feeling terrific.
That terrific feeling was constant when Bruce was with Sandy.
Unfortunately Sandy moved back to Europe and they parted in a
friendly manner. Bruce was quite certain that there was little
chance of them getting back together again.
Steps 1 and 2 came easily to Bruce. But Step 3, allowing himself to
feel the feelings without envisioning Sandy holding his hand, was
much more difficult. Bruce felt that only Sandy could make him feel
that way, and he was unable to achieve Step 3.
The next day, without thinking about the exercise, Bruce shook hands
with his boss, a woman, and suddenly felt terrific. That day, every
woman he encountered made him feel terrific. Bruce realized that he
didn't need Sandy in order to create the feelings. By the end of the
day, he realized that if he wanted to experience that terrific
feeling, everyone could, so to speak, help him do that – both men
and women.
Summary
It's important to use this technique only when the dream feelings
are unambiguous. For example, if you dreamed you were flying, but
were afraid you might fall, don’t use that dream since the good
experience also leads you to an unpleasant place. Instead wait for
an unmistakably fantastic dream. Similarly, if Bruce's dream had
left him feeling sad and depressed at the loss of Sandy, that would
be a clear signal not to use the technique.
This technique is a close cousin of the
Body Scan
Some dreams are the kinds that we wish we could never leave,
creating beautiful emotions. The best way to hold onto these
feelings is to locate them in your body. You then can recreate them
whenever you want, using them to counteract bad moods or to prime
yourself with excitement.
Emotions are like wines and this technique allows you to "bottle"
the finest of them.
DREAM ANALYSIS BY TELEPHONE
A phone consultation is a great way to begin your exploration of
dream work. It is also perfect when you don’t have the time to
attend a regular class but want to discuss a particular dream.
David is available for dream consultations by phone. The current
cost is $50 per hour. A typical dream analysis might consist of a
30-45 minute discussion of the dream and a follow up after the next
dream.
David’s hours for telephone consultations are Monday through Friday,
10 am to 7 pm, Pacific Time. To make an appointment, please email
him with two or three times when you are available and your phone
number. He will e-mail you back with an appointment time, payment
information and request a confirmation. David’s e-mail address is
davidj@dreamreplay.com
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VACATION
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Best wishes
David Jenkins
Dream RePlay
phone: (510) 644 2369
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