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Dream of
the Week #19
The
Nightmare:
Getting
Beyond the
Climax
Almost everyone
has them.
You know it was
not ''real.'' It
was ''only a
dream.'' But
nightmares are
powerful
experiences of
our fears.
Shaking them off
can be tough.
During a
nightmare, we
lose our ability
to think and act
clearly. Courage
abandons us and,
instead, a sense
of fear, often
laced with guilt
and shame,
overpowers us.
We are attacked,
humiliated,
betrayed, and
emotionally
tortured. In a
nightmare, we
have no weapons;
friends become
enemies; the
world is
unmanageable,
revealing our
vulnerabilities
at every turn.
How do you get
rid of
nightmares?
If you compare
your nightmare
to a story or
movie, you’ll
see that the
dream stops at
the climax—the
scene when the
hero is in the
most vulnerable
situation, where
the audience
gasps in horror
sure that the
hero will die.
Your task is to
transform that
climax into a
resolution, by
finishing the
scene and
allowing your
dreamer, the
hero of your
dream life, to
triumph over
adversity.
One of the
easiest ways to
“fix” a
nightmare is to
use the
Movie Method:
Wanda’s dream
Two men are
chasing me. I
know that they
will kill me if
they catch me. I
manage to run
away but then
I’m trapped on a
balcony. I look
down to a
courtyard but
it's too far
away I'm certain
that the jump
would kill me. I
am helpless.
This nightmare
had plagued
Wanda since she
was a teenager.
Creating her own
movie script,
Wanda imagined
Susan Sarandon
playing her.
Wanda decided
that, at the
climax, Tim
Robbins would
come in. He'd
climb halfway up
to the balcony
and hold her
hand so that she
could jump
without hurting
herself.
It made her
laugh to imagine
herself being
courted from a
balcony. What
began as a
nightmare was
already turning
into a romantic
comedy.
Her nightmare
disappeared in a
single session.
Jack's nightmare
I dream I am
back at my old
job. They have
overwhelmed me
with work. The
cash register is
broken and I am
dropping things
all over the
floor in front
of the
customers.
Jack had worked
as a checker in
a very
understaffed
supermarket and
this had
happened to him
more than once
in waking life.
To fix this
nightmare, the
dreamer asserted
himself in the
situation. In
his imagination,
Jack went back
into the dream
situation and
told his
managers exactly
what they were
doing wrong. He
told them what
staff they
needed on his
shift. Then he
went to each
customer and
explained that
due to unusual
circumstances he
would not be
able to serve
them.
The key for Jack
was to replay
the dream to the
climax and then
continue it
to a resolution.
This twenty year
nightmare
subsided in the
next dream, was
uneventful in
the third dream
and hasn't been
seen since
January 2006,
five months ago.
Summary
The point, with
nightmares, is
make them stop.
They ruin your
sleep and they
disturb your
daytime
abilities.
With
Dream RePlay,
you can expect
dramatic
improvements in
your dream life:
instead of foes
and fears you
can experience
friends and fun.
Your nightmares
will decrease
and even stop
after one effort
when you move
the story of
your dream
beyond the
climax.
DREAM
ANALYSIS BY
TELEPHONE
David is
available for
dream
consultations by
phone. The
current cost is
$50 per hour. A
typical dream
analysis might
consist of a
30-45 minute
discussion of
the dream and a
follow up after
the next dream.
David’s hours
for telephone
consultations
are Monday
through Friday,
10 am to 7 pm,
Pacific Time. To
make an
appointment,
please email him
with two or
three times when
you are
available and
your phone
number. He will
e-mail you back
with an
appointment
time, payment
information and
request a
confirmation.
David’s e-mail
address is
davidj@dreamreplay.com
This is a great
way to begin
your exploration
of dream work.
It is also
perfect when you
don’t have the
time to attend a
regular class
but want to
discuss a
particular
dream.
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OF THE WEEK
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the Week, please
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friends about
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Best wishes
David Jenkins
Dream RePlay
phone: (510)
644 2369
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