Dream of the Week #14:
Gestalt
The Whole IS Greater Than
The Sum Of The Parts
The Gestalt Approach
"Gestalt" is a German word that
is difficult to translate. It
refers to a sense of wholeness.
You consider the entire subject
rather than one particular
aspect of it. In dream work, it
means expressing the dream from
various angles and then
integrating them. So to speak,
each character in the dream
understands it in their own way.
Your ''character'' (i.e., you) has
one perspective. Gestalt asks
the question "Does the dreamer's
sense of dream reality fit for
all parts of the dream? Usually
the answer is no.
What you typically find is that
your appreciation of the dream
changes greatly after taking
into account other parts of the
dream. What initially seemed
unimportant may now be a crucial
factor in the dream.
Gestalt is What Happens When
You Watch a Movie
Consider that every time you
view a movie, you see events
from many points of view. The
camera determines what you see
and from whose perspective. The
director decides whether you are
looking directly at the hero,
through the hero's eyes, or from
some other perspective. That
''shapes'' your understanding of
the events. Most movies would be
boring if only seen through one
pair of eyes
Being: The Gestalt Technique
With dream work, the Gestalt
idea is to ''be'' other characters
in the dream. It's more than
just imagining what they might
say or do—it involves taking an
extra step and getting inside
them. This difference is
critical.
Gillian's Dream
I dream I am driving with
Chrissie, my former boss to a
meeting. I know we haven't
considered all our options and
I'm worried it won't go well. My
boss is exceedingly quiet, not
her usual bubbly self.
Now we had Gillian imagine that
Chrissie had a dream about her.
Here is the dream Gillian told
from Chrissie's perspective:
I dream I am heading to an
appointment with Gillian, my
former assistant. She's
brilliant at catching the
problems we will encounter but
the way she talks about them
makes everyone think we will
fail. She doesn't get it that
it's my job to make it succeed.
It's her job to warn me of the
difficulties. I need her to do
her job and let me do mine. I'm
quiet because this is a
difficult thing to tell Gillian.
The dreamer would never have
seen herself in this light. This
is very typical of Gestalt work,
Gillian got it that there was a
bigger picture. This dream Boss
was telling her to express
herself without being afraid
that everything would fail.
The Limits of Gestalt Work
with Dreams
Gestalt is a method that works
brilliantly when you have dream
characters that are capable of
having a dialogue. It doesn't
work well in Dream RePlay with
angry, mindless characters (for
example, monsters intent on
killing you, punitive people who
intend to put you down). Beyond
that very specific limitation --
to avoid using it with negative
dream characters -- it's one of
the most useful dream work
techniques.
You Can Be Any Part of the
Dream
Gestalt is not limited to
people. You can imagine yourself
as the ground on which the dream
is taking place. You can fly
over the dream and see what it
looks like from the air. The
only rule is to completely step
into the role of the person,
place or thing from which you
are viewing the dream.
Jack's Dream
I dream I am with my
ex-girlfriend Suzie. We are in a
room. There is only a square
table and she's on one side. I'm
on the other. I'm telling her
that she lied to me when we were
breaking up.
Nothing much happened when the
dreamer played the role of
Suzie. She was defensive and
even though she knew she had
lied, she wasn't about to
discuss it with Jack.
When Jack became the table top,
the dream changed dramatically.
From the table's perspective,
neither of them was being
completely honest and the table
hurt when Jack pounded it. The
dreamer had never considered
this before. It made sense to
him that his anger was causing
damage. The fact that he focused
on Suzie's dishonesty no longer
seemed to be the real issue. In
some way, he now understood that
he had pushed her away and that
was something ''under the table.''
Using Gestalt in Your Dream
Work
You may have noticed that, in
previous columns, we have used
the Gestalt technique without
labeling it as such. For
instance, Alan's perspective in
Dream of the Week #1 (http://dreamreplay.com/dreamoftheweek_1.htm)
was a Gestalt.
Replaying the dream from
different perspectives often
acts like a bolt of lightning
(and lightening): suddenly the
dream fits together in a way
that makes more sense.
When you integrate the different
perspectives, you have a
radically more complete view of
the dream.
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